[urgent]. How to get rid of a bridesmaid.

[Asparagus and Lemons]

Sounds like my sil too!
Write her a letter explain why she is NOT a bridesmaid.
Or
Write a status thanking all your beautiful bridesmaids for being the best, tagging them all, BUT her!

[Ca Plane Pour Moi]

Actually, forget about the bridesmaid bit. That isn't as important as the next bit.

Let her know she isn't invited to the wedding any more. Do either of you want such a horrid person there? Well then.

[mrscricket]

Some good suggestions here! If you really don't want her, make sure you do something about it - don't decide to have her in it just to keep the peace. 3 of my friends have all had bridesmaids that they weren't really sure about and all of them now no longer speak to the 'bad bridesmaids '. One of them even hates the girl so much she doesn't even like looking at her wedding photos

[Kaydee]

Try not to stress and just get it over with. Who knows, maybe she will be relieved!? It sounds like this might be the case. Good luck with it all!!
Also: I suggest you try to be as mature (and nice) about it as you can. You don't want to start a war, especially right before your wedding.

[BeautifulMadness]

id tell her stright out...